Most people do not need fixing.
They need locating.
The Founder
Dr. Alon Aviram
Writer, psychotherapist, and creator of the Human(s)e framework.
When I was a quiet little boy, there was a bench at school I used to sit on every day. Its paint had begun to flake, a tired shade of green that I decided to name peeling green.
From that spot, I watched life unfold: the noise of games, the choreography of teachers, the small dramas between friends. I was shy, sometimes a little lonely, but endlessly curious. Over time, I fell in love with observing itself.
Other kids started to find me there. They'd sit beside me and talk about whatever was heavy or confusing. I would listen. Not to fix. Just to be there.
Years later, after degrees, supervision, and countless sessions, I still think of that bench. Most of the people I work with are not broken. They are disoriented. They understand a great deal about themselves and still feel lost in the terrain of their own lives.
For a long time I told myself I was observing people. Somewhere along the way, I realized I was watching something else entirely. I was watching spaces. The spaces between people. The spaces inside the self. The spaces where tension gathers, and where movement becomes possible again.
Human(s)e was built by sitting with people and watching what actually changes when they locate themselves. Not what they said, but what they could finally reach across.
I am a relational therapist, which means I work in the space between people as much as within the person sitting across from me. I do not try to fix anyone. I help them see where they already are. The direction, once they can see it, belongs to them.
My first book, How to Be Your Own Couple Therapist, moves through the tensions that quietly shape the way two people live together over time. It will be released in 2026.
Why this work exists?
Because many people struggle not from brokenness, but from disorientation.
We often try to change ourselves or our relationships without first understanding the space we are in. We push for clarity, closeness, or relief, only to feel more stuck. When orientation is missing, effort replaces awareness.
Human(s)e offers a different starting point. It begins with location rather than explanation. It asks where experience is tightening, where it is losing rhythm, and where movement has slowed.
By naming the spaces we move through and the tensions that shape them, Human(s)e creates a language for what is often felt but not articulated. This language does not solve life. It helps people relate to it with greater clarity and care.
The aim is not balance or control. It is responsiveness. When people regain a sense of where they are, change becomes less forced and more coherent.
Human(s)e is not therapy, not treatment, and not diagnosis. The framework and its tools are built for orientation: helping you see where you are, so you can see what is possible from there. They do not replace professional care. If you want to understand the thinking behind this work, the Philosophy page is where the framework begins.